these are not in any order of importance. just had to get these off my mind.
I DO NOT LIKE:
1. guys who add girls on facebook just because they think the girl's profile pic is hot
2. girls who give in to guys' pervertedness by ex. working at hooters, getting drunk and letting guys take advantage, beauty contests, acting slutty to get attention, flirting with guys who have girlfriends
3.girls who dye their hair blonde and get fake boobs or plastic surgery of any kind
4. guys who would date any girl
5. people who drink because they don't know how else to have fun
6. people who have sex before marriage
7. people who don't stand up for anything
8. people who don't have any beliefs or values
9. people who follow the crowd...i like leaders
10. guys who have dumbass friends
11. dumbass friends
12. guys who create facebook events like "beer, tits, rave" and invite all us freshmen girls expecting us to go and degrade ourselves for their amusement.
13. girls who go to these parties
14. people who don't listen
15. guys who just want to nail a girl
16. guys who treat you well for the first six months and then don't bother to open a door or be sweet to you afterwards
17. guys who just do what everyone else tells them
18. people who are controlling
19. people who are too dependent
20. people who sabotage themselves and then claim to be victims
21. people who don't think before they act
22. guys who don't get this:
gf: hey are you coming over tonight
bf: no, im going home
gf: oh..ok :(
bf: yeah so whats up
gf:....(thinking wtf? did he not get that i wanted him to come over?)
bf: (clearly lost because he cant take a hint by reading the frown on his gf's face when he said he
wasn't coming over or by her sad response) DUHHHHH
THINK, DUDE, THINK!
Gf goes home by herself and thinks of how he must not want to be with her. Guy could have just said he wanted to go home and see his friends. or he could see she was upset by him saying no and come over.
23. Guys who are too macho
24. Mommy's boys
25. guys who go to strip clubs
26. people who do drugs
27. people who smoke
28. guys who watch porn
29. guys who sext random chicks
30. guys who checkout other girls when they have a gf
31. guys who go to hooters
32. guys and anyone who lies to someone and hurts them
33. people who cheat
34. people who are passive aggressive
35. people who are cowards
36. people who don't fight for what they love/ who they love
37. quitters. life takes determination.
RE: 28---what about girls who watch porn? I do it pretty regularly. Is that any different from when men do it?
ReplyDeleteAnd as for number 2, while I agree some of those behaviors are less than ok (like flirting with men you know are attached), working at Hooter's is a choice that some women make because it pays better than waitressing does otherwise. For most of them, it's about paying the bills, not just giving men what they want. Same goes for strippers: I have a few friends who financed college this way, all motivated by the cash. I've heard it quoted anecdotally before that a large number of strippers were women's studies majors in college because they figured out what to do about the patriarchy--take their money!
--the Sheriff
Sheriff,
ReplyDeleteThis is Dr. Kinky (the other writer of this blog who didn't write this post)
I think what angers me about #28 is that because boys/men watch porn from such a young age, their view of a woman's body is distorted. They assume all "hot" women look like Victoria Secret models and that just isn't the case.
For #2. Although some strippers and hooters' girls are turning patriarchy into profit to use to further their education, I wonder how much is too much. I understand that strippers and hooters girls do make quite a bit of money and are using the money to a good use, but is it really worth it to get the money for having to expose 80% of your body. I really don't know. I don't think I would be able to handle that type of job, because I would have to conform to the stereotypical view of "hot" and "beautiful" women, which I am not, therefore I wouldn't make a lot of money. Me dying my hair blonde wouldn't be too pretty. lol
#6: I personally wouldn't judge someone for having sex before marriage. For me, if I was in a committed relationship and thought that it would be a good step for us I wouldn't mind. But my reasoning for that is more that I am done with meaningless relationships. I am at the point in my life where I just don't want those types of relationships in my life anymore. At the end of the day hooking up with people whether its just making out or having sex is fun. And would I have sex before marriage? Maybe, if I wanted to (but I would do it SAFELY!)
#25: I think this would bother me. I would feel like I wasn't good enough. I would try to ask my partner why he felt the need to go to a strip club. Am I not good enough? Do you want to try to spice up our sex life? If there is no answer to this or he feels the need to regularly go to a strip club, then maybe we don't have the right sexual chemistry, which is one important facet in a relationship.
Although people may do shitty things we don't like, sometimes people make mistakes. I think it is equally important if not more, how people deal with their mistakes and the consequences of those mistakes.
<3
Dr. Kinky