the college experience???

So i am up here at IU sitting in the dorm before my next class. I am just biding time by checking facebook and email, etc. I hear sirens for the millionth time today and think, "geez, who is getting killed now?" it's beyond ridiculous. i can hear the guy down the hall singing about "putting his dick into Brad's mom's butt." what THE hell? and now, right now, as i am writing this the sirens have begun again! i just don't understand. In the three weeks that I've been here, there have already been several rapes, robberies, and attempted murders. honestly, stop breaking the law you stupid assholes! go get a life, get a job, like everyone else. all i hear about are these girls, pretty girls, turning to alcohol and promiscuity to get attention. and it just makes me so sad. i know very well that i could choose to be doing the same things. i have been invited to the same frat parties, i could take the same risks. but i understand that it's just that. a RISK. when you are drunk, you lose control, not only over yourself, but control of the situation. then you get raped by some frat guy and his friends, who are also presumably drunk. and all of you wonder who's fault this is. of course the guys will be blamed, because it is ILLEGAL in the state of indiana to have sex with someone who is inebriated and cannot give informed, logical, sober consent to have sex. it is considered rape. this is just one of the many things that can happen to you when you put yourself in a situation with people you don't know, getting drunk, and expecting things to turn out okay. you could get kidnapped, you could get alcohol poisoning if you dont know how much you've had or how much of which proof you've had. and even when you're getting drunk with people you do know, everyone acts different when they're drunk or high, so the people you think you know could be acting totally different and let something happen to you. you simply cannot rely on others all the time. why take the unnecessary risk for a night you're not even going to remember? the only way you really will remember a truly drunken night is if something truly unusual happens, which is typically not good. if this is "the college experience," then i want no part in it. i'm here to get an education, make decent reliable friends, and be successful. if you can't have a good time without drinking, then you clearly have no imagination.